Allow the How
A "How-to" Written by Dr. Erin Oksol
February 18th, 2026
2 min read
February 18th, 2026
2 min read
Dr. Erin Oksol, known as The Success Psychologist, helps CEOs, leaders, and entrepreneurs evolve the human behind the business, because true success starts within. As a highly sought-after keynote speaker, corporate trainer, and high-performance mentor, she empowers visionaries to elevate not just what they do, but who they are.
Blending science-backed strategies with spiritually informed pathways, Dr. Erin guides her clients to expand their identity, amplify their impact, and increase their income in alignment with their highest truth.
Recognized for her excellence and influence, Dr. Erin has been awarded Professional Saleswoman of Nevada, named a Top Doctor, and honored as one of the 125 Global Leaders to Follow by SUCCESS magazine. She is the best-selling author of Mind Your Own Business and the host of the Oh How Human of Me podcast on Substack, where she explores the intersection of mindset, mastery, and meaningful success.
As the founder of The Higher Life, Dr. Erin leads a global movement of high-performing visionaries who are committed to building lives and businesses sourced from their highest truth and co-created with their higher power, proving that sustainable success is both strategic and spiritual.
“YOU are the strategy. Your highest self knows the way.”
-Dr. Erin Oksol
Blending science-backed strategies with spiritually informed pathways, Dr. Erin guides her clients to expand their identity, amplify their impact, and increase their income in alignment with their highest truth.
Recognized for her excellence and influence, Dr. Erin has been awarded Professional Saleswoman of Nevada, named a Top Doctor, and honored as one of the 125 Global Leaders to Follow by SUCCESS magazine. She is the best-selling author of Mind Your Own Business and the host of the Oh How Human of Me podcast on Substack, where she explores the intersection of mindset, mastery, and meaningful success.
As the founder of The Higher Life, Dr. Erin leads a global movement of high-performing visionaries who are committed to building lives and businesses sourced from their highest truth and co-created with their higher power, proving that sustainable success is both strategic and spiritual.
“YOU are the strategy. Your highest self knows the way.”
-Dr. Erin Oksol
After 13 years of being an entrepreneur, these are the three words that best encapsulate what I believe is the STRATEGY for making all of your dreams come true.
Never in my wildest dreams would I have predicted to land on such a knowing.
The #1 question I get asked is, "But how, Dr. Erin?"
Many times this question can be answered. For example...
How do I become a great speaker?
How do I build a personal brand?
How do I increase my sales?
How do I grow my emotional intelligence?
How do I have a great marriage?
How do I have a world-class relationship with my children?
But for the question, “How do I make all of my dreams come true?”, there is no “do this, then this, then you will get the result” cookie-cutter recipe.
What I do know is YOU are the strategy. And these are the steps. All are required, and none can be skipped.
Never in my wildest dreams would I have predicted to land on such a knowing.
The #1 question I get asked is, "But how, Dr. Erin?"
Many times this question can be answered. For example...
How do I become a great speaker?
How do I build a personal brand?
How do I increase my sales?
How do I grow my emotional intelligence?
How do I have a great marriage?
How do I have a world-class relationship with my children?
But for the question, “How do I make all of my dreams come true?”, there is no “do this, then this, then you will get the result” cookie-cutter recipe.
What I do know is YOU are the strategy. And these are the steps. All are required, and none can be skipped.
What I do know is YOU are the strategy.
And these are the steps.
All are encouraged, and none should be skipped.
That's how.
When God moves, you move.
Cheers to your success,
Dr. Erin, The Success Psychologist
And these are the steps.
All are encouraged, and none should be skipped.
- You ask your higher power, "What is the dream you have for my life?'
- You master your craft and become world-class at it.
- You go and do great things...with excellence.
- You let the world react because everything is a co-creation.
- You do enough of this and learn to hold it all (the praise, the adoration, as well as the judgment and loss of friends, colleagues, and the stamp of approval from others).
- You enter a spiritual black hole, where you look your dreams straight in the face, deciding once again if they are worth it and whether you will be faithful and persevere.
- You increase the probability of your dreams coming true by continuing to create, doing everything with excellence, and shipping out the work.
- You let God do God’s part through the humans who choose to work with you and move your mission forward.
- You sit back in awe and say, “Wow. God. You really blew my mind.”
That's how.
When God moves, you move.
Cheers to your success,
Dr. Erin, The Success Psychologist
